There is something magical about dating, especially dating someone new.  It is that combination of nerves, fear and stress along with excitment and hope.  Typically this side-effect is felt in the way of butterflies in our stomachs. Fluttering here and there, the nervous energy is just trying to escape.  Butterflies are important, as they show how much you really do in fact care.   Having that nervous and excited energy also shows your intuition how much you look forward to seeing that special someone.   (The “butterfly effect” has also been tagged as having za za zsu from the beloved Sex & the City…)

Yes, I am still advocating that you approach love from a neutral perspective like a journalist but you don’t want to be stand offish, do you? Single ladies need to finding the perfect balance (just like a perfect fit) between being neutral and giddy.  This my friends can take practice and honest perspective from fellow single ladies.    If one of your girlfriends gives you advice regarding your butterfly hunting approach listen to her.  She only wants the best for you.

If you feel the butterflies fluttering, then follow their lead.  Who knows, maybe love is right around the corner.